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The Happiness Project

January 8, 2010 by USA Post 

The Happiness Project:Gretchen Rubin spent a year studying books and research reports about happiness and then tested out the ideas on herself to find out if they would make her happier. She wrote about her experiments in a highly-entertaining memoir called The Happiness Project, which came out last week.

Rubin was actually pretty happy before starting the project. She is a wife and mother of two children, and a successful author. They have a nice apartment in New York. What’s not to be happy about? The problem for Rubin was that she wanted to appreciate the good life she knew that she had, and stop feeling annoyed so much. She felt guilty for being a nag and a complainer. “How could I discipline myself to feel grateful for my ordinary day?” she wondered. Because she knew her life was already good, she didn’t want to radically change it — she wanted to change small things in reasonable ways that made sense for her and her family. As she explains, “I didn’t want to reject my life.”

Rubin was a little concerned that focusing so intently on her own happiness was selfish, but she learned from her research that happy people are “more altruistic, more productive, more helpful, more likable, more creative, more resilient, are interested in others, friendlier, and healthier. Happy people make better friends, colleagues, and citizens.”

One thing Rubin learned while researching happiness studies was that “people are more likely to make progress on goals that are broken into concrete, measurable actions, with some kind of structured accountability and positive reinforcement.” So she came up with a chart (inspired by the 13-point chart for virtuous living that Benjamin Franklin kept) to track the virtues she was interested in. (Here’s a Word doc of Rubin’s charts.)

Rubin went to work tackling one major resolution per month for a year, reporting on how it affected her happiness. In January, she strove to boost her energy by sleeping more, exercising better, organizing her home and office, completing “nagging tasks,” and pretending to have more energy. In February, she worked on making her happy marriage even happier. In March, she addressed work-related goals, and in subsequent months she worked on parenthood, play, friendship, money, spirituality, passion, mindfulness, and attitude.

I had fun reading about Rubin’s triumphs, insights, and failures. She’s honest about her frustrating experiences, which are often more interesting that her successful ones. I admire her for wanting to become a better, more interesting, and more helpful person, and for sharing her story. I’m going to apply much of what I read in this book into my own life.

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